I was thinking of sharing this piece of wisdom I obtained a few years ago. I am getting there, hopefully. For the male readers, are you an aristocrat when you date a woman? For the female readers, have you dated one, or are dating one? I hope you enjoy this list. Feel free to comment about your thoughts/frustrations/gratitude/anger/etc. Or you can just contact me via other means ;)
Anyway, an aristocratic gentleman:
1. Is detached and objective when dating women.
2. Is never afraid of losing a girl. The fear of losing the girl will lead to the loss of the girl.
3. Believes that there is always a better woman for him.
4. Believes that God blesses us with more than one soulmates. If one door closes, another one opens.
5. Once he receives respect and admiration from the lady, he reciprocates by giving her his attention and affection. He spoils the lady to the best of his capacity.
6. Does not sweet talk his lady too often.
7. Lets his lady to be more active and do most of the talking, so as to better understand the lady's true self, stripped of her facades.
8. Understands that mutual understanding, not mutual demanding, is the key to relationships.
9. Knows that every lady has her own favorite little things. He takes note of them and surprises her with them.
10. Knows that love does not need to rush, because there is nothing to be chased after. However, he also knows that love should not be lazy, because it does not wait. He knows that love is like a river, and he should just go with the flow.
11. Knows that love = sharing + caring. A relationship without communication is like a bagel without cream cheese: nothing glues the two pieces together, and it doesn't taste good.
12. Does not bring up sacrifices he made for his lady. For when he does that, he is sacrificing the value of his sacrifice. He also knows that love without sacrifice is tasteless.
That is all, folks. Hope you enjoyed the read.
Truly Indonesia's Finest,
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