When I was meeting my spiritual adviser (and most importantly, friend) back home this summer, she was giving me some advice on talking to women. She told me to be creative in my ways in approaching them and talking to them. When I asked her what she meant by "creative", she gave me an example:
"For instance, let's say you are in a cafe, and the person of interest is sitting there. You can just say, 'scuse me, you mind if I sit here?' and sit yourself right across her."
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I started this morning feeling slightly anxious and emotionally drained. I found a great book to read by Abraham Hicks, and decided to ditch everything else and read the book while sipping a cup of Starbucks' green tea latte. I would typically get my car and drive to the Starbucks in Hadley, but it was snowing pretty hard, and therefore I decided just to walk to the one in town. I got my green tea latte, paid, and stood up waiting for my drink before looking for a seat.
Guess what: She's waltzed right into the store, marked her place to sit, and bought her drink. You bet I asked if I could sit right across her. Later on I learned that she was out of allowance, and the only thing she could buy is Starbucks because she had the card. And it was her last dollar too. And you bet I took her to lunch, and you bet I had a great conversation with her :)
And now I wonder why I sometimes I believe that coincidences exist.
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